Friday, December 28, 2012

Sunday, December 30, 2012: New Years 2013: Reflecting Back, Looking Forward & Inquiring the Meanings of Time


This year Conversation members will come together and probe memories of 2012. Come this Sunday and consider with one another the reported stories that took the forefront of mainstream dialogue as well as the stories that were under represented.  Consider the changes that took place in your own life or the lives of those you know and love.


Query the tradition of time changes in our national  mindset, in other Nations, and in your own life. What significance does the end or beginning of a year or a decade symbolize and what is the purpose of this breaking up of time? Ho For instance, how will you engage the arrival of Chinese New year in February? 

Finally, what ideas have you been developing towards change in your own lives over during this period? How does the beginning of a new time, a new year, a new era, signify possible change for you and those you know?

Come and share your thoughts and experiences with The Conversation.

We hope to see you there. 

The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Sunday, December 16: View and Discuss Unnatural Causes Part 2

Sunday, December 16:  View and Discuss Unnatural Causes Part 2

This Sunday we will view a 2nd segment of California Newsreel's 7 part documentary, Unnatural Causes, and then continue our round table conversation about the implications.


Click here to "See how death could be averted in your community if more adults experienced the same level of health as those who have attended college." -The Commision to Build a Healthier America


Included is the resource shared last week from the Unnatural Causes website which describesa few of the symptoms discussed in the documentary.


For more information please visit The Unnatural Causes Top 10 Resources OR The Unnatural Causes homepage.



Please join us!
All ages are welcome!

Wednesday, December 05, 2012

Sunday, December 9: View and Discuss Unnatural Causes


This Sunday we will view  a segment of the 7 part documentary Unnatural Causes and then have a round table conversation about the implications. 

"What connections exist between healthy bodies, healthy bank accounts, and skin color? Four individuals from different walks of life demonstrate how one’s position in society – shaped by social policies and public priorities – affects health" (PBS 2009).

Included is a resource from the Unnatural Causes website that describes some of the symptoms discussed in the documentary. For more information please visit The Unnatural Causes Top 10 Resources OR The Unnatural Causes homepage.


Please join us and all ages are welcome!

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Sunday, December 2: Final Part of Stand up! Speak up! Shut up!

Is it a position? Is it an attitude? Is it an action? Is it a capacity? What is leadership? How is it developed? What is the role and place of communication in leadership?



Come explore and develop leadership and communication skills in the interactive workshop sessions led by Dexter Gordon.

Stand up! Speak up! Shut up!

Part 1 November 11
Part 2 November 18
Part 3 Novemeber 25
Part 4 December 2

ALSO Dear Conversation Member,

The first Sunday of each month is designated as "Potluck Sunday." Please bring one of your favorite dishes to share with all. As you consider what to bring, do keep in mind there are vegetarians and vegans in our family, too.

Looking forward to seeing you!

Preview: Sunday, December 9: View and Discuss Unnatural Causes

Please visit the Unnatural Causes website

 (http://www.unnaturalca  uses.org/)

"What connections exist between healthy bodies, healthy bank accounts, and skin color? Four individuals from different walks of life demonstrate how one’s position in society – shaped by social policies and public priorities – affects health" (PBS 2009).



Please Join us.

All ages are welcome!




The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


Monday, November 19, 2012

Sunday, November 25: Part 3 of Stand up! Speak up! Shut up! A Workshop on Public Speaking and Leadership with Dexter Gordon





Is it a position? Is it an attitude? Is it an action? Is it a capacity? What is leadership? How is it developed? What is the role and place of communication in leadership?


Come explore and develop leadership and communication skills in the interactive workshop sessions led by Dexter Gordon.

Stand up! Speak up! Shut up!

Part 1 November 11
Part 2 November 18
Part 3 Novemeber 25
Part 4 December 2


Please Join us.

All ages are welcome!



The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


Friday, November 16, 2012

Sunday, November 18: Part 2 of Stand up! Speak up! Shut up! A Workshop on Public Speaking and Leadership with Dexter Gordon





Is it a position? Is it an attitude? Is it an action? Is it a capacity? What is leadership? How is it developed? What is the role and place of communication in leadership? 


Come explore and develop leadership and communication skills in the second of three interactive workshop sessions led by Dexter Gordon.

Stand up! Speak up! Shut up!

All ages are welcome!

The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


Friday, November 09, 2012

Sunday, November 11: Stand up! Speak up! Shut up! A Workshop on Public Speaking with Dexter Gordon



Is it a position? Is it an attitude? Is it an action? Is it a capacity? What is leadership? How is it developed? What is the role and place of communication in leadership? 

Come explore and develop leadership and communication skills in the first of three interactive workshop sessions led by Dexter Gordon. Stand up! Speak up! Shut up!

All ages are welcome!




The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


Friday, November 02, 2012

Potluck Sundays!

Dear Conversation Member,


The first Sunday of each month is designated as "Potluck Sunday." Please bring one of your favorite dishes to share with all. As you consider what to bring, do keep in mind there are vegetarians and vegans in our family, too.

Looking forward to seeing you on Sunday, November 4, at 12 noon!

The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)

November 4: Petra Returns: Social Capital, Dreaming Big, and Doing the Work

The model Petra has shared with the Conversation states that the skills necessary to start and keep a business running are the very same skills that each of us have in our own personal stories. We have skills that we use to keep our households running that can be directly transferred to building a sustainable business once combined with social capital.


Petra will return November 4, as we begin defining big dreams among the group and making connections with others in the room, using our own social capitol to value the exchange of services, time, and property above the exchange of money. We are asking members to dream big.

What is the business you have thought about building? What is a vision you would like to make real? Think of the services and tools necessary to complete this vision. Create a list of what you imagine is needed. What skills do you have that someone else might use for their big dream?

Bring your ideas and expertise to the meeting this Sunday.


ALL AGES ARE WELCOME!
Petra Perkins is a serial entrepreneur, who is working on her third start-up. She is also a licensed life & health insurance professional, and teaches at in the Business programs at Seattle Central Community College and Tacoma Community College. She holds the Group Benefits Associate designation from the International Society of Certified Employee Benefits Specialists. She is dedicated to demystifying entrepreneurship and entrepreneurial education. She believes that if we teach everyone how to start and run a business, we will have better employees and better businesses.


The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)

Friday, October 26, 2012

Sunday, October 28: "Transferable Skills: What drug dealers and single heads of household know that many MBA graduates don't."


On October 28, we will be cataloging thefinancial tools we use, the ones we need to learn, and examine personal financial literacy in the larger context of business literacy and then we will be using business literacy as a tool for local social justice efforts.



If you did not attend the first nor second parts of Petra Perkins' workshops "God or Mammon:  Money, Core Values, and the Entrepreneurial Life" & "Social Capital: What is it? Why is it hard to measure? Why is it more important than financial capital (especially for women and minorities)?", your attendance is still welcomed.  

Please come and use the prompt below to create a story map to bring with you to this final meeting. 

Create a list (or lists) of words, phrases, or sentences that describe the experiences, culture, and relationships that first formed your attitudes about money and work. 


All ages are welcome!
12:00p-2:00p 
The Urban League of Tacoma
 2550 South Yakima Street


Petra Perkins is a serial entrepreneur, who is working on her third start-up. She is also a licensed life & health insurance professional, and teaches at in the Business programs at Seattle Central Community College and Tacoma Community College. She holds the Group Benefits Associate designation from the International Society of Certified Employee Benefits Specialists. She is dedicated to demystifying entrepreneurship and entrepreneurial education. She believes that if we teach everyone how to start and run a business, we will have better employees and better businesses.






Sunday, October 21, 2012

The Conversation Sponsors Public Forum on Charter School Initiative 1240


The Conversation Tacoma would like to invite you to engage in a discussion regarding Charter Schools Initiative 1240. This is an opportunity for the community to engage in a discussion on one of the most important issues affecting our children’s education today.

Date: Wednesday, October 24th

Time:   6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.


One of the initiatives on the ballot for Washington voters for November 6, 2012 is Initiative Measure No. 1240. This initiative concerns creation of of a public charter school system. This measure would authorize up to forty public-funded charter schools open to all students, operated through approved, nonreligious, nonprofit organizations, with government oversight; and modify certain laws applicable to them as public schools. 

The event is organized as a Forum which consists of a panel comprised of three opponents and three proponents of I-1240 with opportunity for community questions after the panelists’ presentations. Dr. Dexter Gordon, Professor, University of Puget Sound, is the moderator

Supporting Panelists:
Three representatives from Yes on I-1240 Campaign (names forthcoming)

Opposing Panelists:

Eve Bowen
The Conversation Tacoma
Race & Pedagogy Initiative Community Partner

Patricia Albert

The Conversation Tacoma
Race & Pedagogy Initiative Community Partner

Jennifer Boutell

Field Director
People for Our Public Schools

Location: University of Puget Sound

Kilworth Memorial Chapel
1500 North Warner Street
(North 18th & Warner Street)

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.


We look forward to your participation. 

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Sunday, October 21: Social Capital: What it is? Why is it hard to measure? Why is it more important than financial capital (especially for women and minorities)?

On October 21, we will be using the story maps we started in the first workshop  to describe the elements of the entrepreneurial mindset which we can build on and to examine the relative strength of our social capital.


If you did not attend the first part of Petra Perkins' workshop on September 28: "God or Mammon:  Money, Core Values, and the Entrepreneurial Life", please use the prompt below to create your own story map.

Create a list (or lists) of words, phrases, or sentences that describe the experiences and relationships that first formed your attitudes about money and work. 

Please join us! 
All ages welcome!

Tacoma Urban League-

2550 South Yakima Street
from 12-2pm

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Petra Perkins is a serial entrepreneur, who is working on her third start-up. She is also a licensed life & health insurance professional, and teaches at in the Business programs at Seattle Central Community College and Tacoma Community College. She holds the Group Benefits Associate designation from the International Society of Certified Employee Benefits Specialists. She is dedicated to demystifying entrepreneurship and entrepreneurial education. She believes that if we teach everyone how to start and run a business, we will have better employees and better businesses.

Friday, October 12, 2012

Sunday October 14: Race and Presidential Politics Part II

Last week, our discussion was opened with the question, "Can the President talk about race?"


We referenced two current events to put this question in context: anti-Obama protesters performing "empty chair lynchings," and Tucker Carlson's video re-release and polarizing commentary of President Obama speaking about race to a mostly black audience in 2007.

One member shared last week that acts of blatant racism such as these are always "right below the surface." Another person pointed out the active racialization that occurs with anything that President Obama says, even when its not directly related to race.


If there are media examples you would like to share as part of your contribution to the discussion, please send them to ayanna.drakos@gmail.com

Come prepared to discuss this question further as we build off of last week's dynamic discussion. 

ALL AGES WELCOME!

Tacoma Urban League-
2550 South Yakima Street
from 12-2pm

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Thursday, October 04, 2012

The Conversation Sunday October 7: Race and Presidential Politics



In the same week that the nation turns its eyes and ears to the first of three presidential candidate debates, anti-Obama protesters perform empty chair 'lynchings' across the country in Texas, Virginia, and right here in Washington. The day before the debate, Tucker Carlson's video re-release and commentary of President Obama speaking in 2007 at Hampton University amplifies the racist undertones of a presidential election where the President cannot talk about race. 

Come join us this Sunday as we delve deeper into what these events represent for the state of our national discourse on race in the United States.




*In preparation for Sunday's discussion, please look for your own examples of "digital" racism aimed at the President to be shared as part of the session. You can email your examples to Ayanna @ ayanna.drakos@gmail.com or bring them with you on your own device.

Here are a couple of links to put the conversation in context:

http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/09/20/13989510-empty-chair-lynchings-anti-obama-protests-gone-too-far?lite


http://dailycaller.com/2012/10/02/obama-speech-jeremiah-wright-new-orleans/#ixzz28C96YH6d


ALL AGES WELCOME!

The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)


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Thursday, September 27, 2012

Sunday, September 28, "God or Mammon: Money, Core Values, and the Entrepreneurial Life"

Petra Perkins is a serial entrepreneur, who is working on her third start-up.  She is also a licensed life & health insurance professional, and teaches at in the Business programs at Seattle Central Community College and Tacoma Community College.  She holds the Group Benefits Associate designation from the International Society of Certified Employee Benefits Specialists. 

She is dedicated to demystifying entrepreneurship and entrepreneurial education.  She believes that if we teach everyone how to start and run a business, we will have better employees and better businesses.


This is Sunday Petra is presenting the first of a 3 part series.


Here are the dates for the next workshops.




Sunday, October 21, 12:00 noon -- "Social Capital: What it is?  Why is it hard to measure? Why is it more important than financial capital (especially for women and minorities)?"

Sunday, October 28, 12:00 noon -- "Transferable Skills:  What drug dealers and single heads of household know that many MBA graduates don't."

ALL AGES WELCOME!

The Conversation
Where talk IS action.

Every Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma (2550 South Yakima Street)

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Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Sunday September 23rd Building the Event: Martin Luther King Jr Redeeming the Prophetic Vision 2013



Martin Luther King Jr's life, work, and memory as represented in mainstream popular culture are greatly devoid of conversation about creating a reality consistent with the vision King held for the future of humanity. This Sunday the Conversation will look at the forces that have deviated this compassionate political ambition as we lead into organizing the 7th Annual Martin Luther King Redeeming the Prophetic Vision event scheduled in early 2013.

Our celebration will aim to recapture, reinvigorate, and redeem the prophetic vision of Reverend, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. 

The Conversation aims to present his vision, with its sharp searing insight and relevance within the context of our current community's healing and development, in contrast with what we have seen as an ongoing effort to render it as benign, anemic, allusive, static, and resolved. We want to bring his vision back to the streets, to the people, where it started, where it belongs, and where it is needed.


Please join  us this Sunday as we begin building an engaging, thought provoking, change provoking, entertaining celebration. We always welcome new voices in The Conversation.

Revisit Our Redeeming the Vision Events Past


ALL AGES WELCOME!

 Sunday from 12:00p-2:00p 
@ the Urban League of Tacoma 
(2550 South Yakima Street)


Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Sunday, July 29th - We meet at Wright Park

This coming Sunday, July 29th, the Conversation will be meeting during Ethnic Fest at Wright Park. We will gather half way between the pond and waterpark near where I street and 3rd street meet. Look for a sign that reads "Conversation." Please bring your own items (chairs, blankets) for comfortable seating. This location is for July 29th only. Join us for a stimulating discussion and enjoy the festivities of this wonderful local event all at once!
 
 
CONVERSATION
SUNDAY, JULY 29th
WRIGHT PARK (during ETHNIC FEST)
12:00-2:00pm

Friday, June 22, 2012

Sunday, June 24th: Money in Politics

Hello everyone,

This Sunday, Dave Stromquist, a community advocate will be presenting on "getting money out of politics". He will speak to the current position of Washington Public Campaign (WPC) and how it differs from the Kucinich/Lessig Position. Please join us. Arrive at 11:45, Urban League 2550 S. Yakima Ave. Tacoma, WA.

Below are some links to give you more information on 











Sunday, June 17, 2012

We've Moved!

Hello everyone,

The Conversation has moved to a new location. We are meeting for the first time at The Tacoma Urban league today June 17 It is up the hill from REACH at 2550 S. Yakima Ave.  Please arrive at 11:45 for the 12:00 meeting.



Conversation, 6/17/12



Last week, we conducted a writing workshop that dealt primarily with what we were each going through individually, by looking at our pasts. The goal of last week’s workshop was to have a conversation with our present and past self and to allow us to talk about intrapersonal experience and how we have been affected by external forces, to supplement our conversations about the society we work within.

At this moment of transition, we are entering the summer and want to use today to reflect on, a.) what The Conversation has been to us individually in the past, plus, what it is to us in the present, and b; where we want to see the Conversation go as a group in the year to come.

See you soon.

Sunday, June 10, 2012

June 10 Conversation

Today we will be doing a Writing Workshop that focuses on Ira Progoff's text At a Journal Workshop. We will be focusing on Time Stretching exercises--Steppingstones--to do the work of analyzing who we are today and who we have been during the various circumstances of our lives which led us to this point.

We spend a lot of time in the Conversation discussing the world as it acts upon us and we will be using the time today to discuss in depth the impact this has on our internal existence. The talk back and discussion between writing sessions will allow members to have a conversation about these experiences.



Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Forks Over Knives: Talk Back


Last Sunday's discussion on Forks Over Knives went well. Before the film, the discussion began with members sharing their eating habits. Almost every member of Sunday's discussion were meat eaters. Although most had an understanding of what kind of meat they would or wouldn't eat, a couple of members stated that they'd eat it all. Other members stated that they ate no pork, only turkey and chicken, or only chicken and fish along with the ratio of meat to plant based foods they preferred. There were also a few vegetarians who had seen the film and felt it reinforced their dietary choice and they are now striving for a non-dairy lifestyle. 

Below is a brief overview of the film's argument along with helpful websites to begin walking the road to a more plant and grain based diet. 

The film Forks Over Knives promotes a campaign for the prevention of obesity, coronary artery disease (heart disease),  diabetes, cancer, and other diseases by adopting a plant based, whole foods diet. The research presented by scientist T. Collin Cambell and Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn claims that not only can a whole grain plant based (WGPB) diet prevent such diseases, but it can also halt and reverse their progression. This means living on a diet of no to very little animal protein and cutting way back on processed foods like flour, sugar, and oil. To prove this statement, the viewing audience is shown the case studies of several individuals who begin with many health afflictions, that by the end of the film, are alleviated from adhering to the WGPB diet.

While people assume that cancer is genetic, only 1 or 2% of cancer growth in the body is related to genetics. To counter the myth of genetics, the film demonstrates that the animal protein found in milk and meat is a responsible component for turning on cancerous cell growth in the body.  Eliminating animal protein is only one factor of the film's claim to promoting a successful campaign against the body's disease proliferation.    

Processed foods are chemically designed to taste better and the receptors in your body that feel for both pleasure and energy conservation are most attracted to them because they are ideal for achieving both. They also taste so good that your body craves more of them, likening the pleasure seeking behaviors of an addict, which in turn makes it really hard to monitor and maintain balanced eating habits.

Another mind blower is that these foods have higher caloric values and will not completely fill the stomach. For example, 500 calories of processed or fatty foods will taste good and give you energy but won't fill you up, meaning more consumption of more processed or fatty foods more often to feel full. While 500 calories of whole grain plant based foods will fill you up entirely resulting in less consumption of food overall.

This will then lead to less dietary cholesterol build up (no heart disease or obesity and less cancer growth), less sugar in take ( no diabetes or obesity), and more energy overall (no sitting around the house, vegging out). The film overall requests that the viewer consider these facts and their health when they return to their local grocer.

To close, some may claim that eating more vegetables and grains is expensive and not very interesting or as pleasing to the pallet as the animal protein based or processed foods dismissed in Forks Over Knives. If this information is at all true than it seems that changing dietary habits to more whole grained plant based foods could very well save a lot of money in health care costs down the road and extend one's lifespan to boot. There are many unique and delicious recipes accessible on the Internet to liven up the meals within a novice chef's normal cooking range of expertise. Try a little here and there; be resourceful, and seek support.   



Here are some resources to help you continue the conversation about your health and dietary habits in your home, with friends, and most importantly with yourself. 





Get started on a plant based diet with some information on what to eat and what to avoid.



Join people across the nation as they attempt to curb the use of meat in there lives with Meatless Mondays. 



Consume fish safely with this guide to the safety of wild and farmed sealife.  




If you are worried about surviving without animal protein in your daily life, this website offers options for more plant protein in your diet.

Good luck and good health to you.



Sunday, May 27, 2012

Forks Over Knives: Illuminating the Detriment of Diet to Your Health

As a small suppliment to the discussion we are having today in The Conversation surrounding the 2010 documentary Forks over Knives. Please check out The New York Times article Rethinking Meat.

Fork Over Knives discusses the contributions of animal protein to some of the world's most life threatening and debilitating diseases like coronary disease, diabetes, cancer, and obesity. Please return for follow up conversation on the related discussion we will be having today in our meeting.


Thank you.

Friday, May 18, 2012

Revisiting the Dialogue for Why We Can't Wait

During The Coversation's 2nd reading of Martin Luther King Jr.'s Why We Can't Wait this February, Members participated in discussions and activities that demonstrated their experience with issues of race and class.  Over the next several weeks The Conversation blog will post aspects of these discussions and the reading for you to view and comment on. Our hope is to demonstrate that there is still hard work to be done for true equality to exist in our country's psyche and involvement with her own  diverse (rich/poor; black-brown-red-yellow/white; queer/straight) citizenry and that this text provides guidance and a blueprint of social movement and change that can adjust this violent and oppressive syndrome of power.

Here is some commentary from one of the Conversation meetings during our reading of this text.

"Racial injustice is complex and difficult and it is going to require strategy and resources to change it. It is not going to come by quickly because, as Dr. King says, "400 years of sinning takes time to repair". It needs to be done urgently but not in a rush. That is it has to be thought through. It cannot maintain the status quo.

Wherever you work if you find yourself on the side of those telling people who face injustice to wait longer--CHANGE SIDES, for God's sake, because the status quo will not give anybody justice. The status quo has to be challenged and transformed from people who are outside of it.

It should be ended.  Planned gradualism and planned spontaneity will not work. There has to be a structure." -Conversation Member

The following are letters that Conversation members drafted in response to this prompt:

 Write a letter stating what you would say to the White moderate and to the Black activist of today.


To the Black Activist,

·      Stay strong and continue to fight for social justice. Improve on your strategies to improve on your strategies to in pact change and retrain from criticizing the strategies of others. Recognize that the beast is multi-layered and complex and here is no silver bullet or one approach. Let’s be less critical of others in the fight and fight how we fight. END (*)

·     When you first committed to the philosophy of black nationalism the territory seemed clear and unassailable. The march of time and Hesson’s life raised the specter of criticism of the underside of nationalist philosophy. I sit amongst you being black thinking nationalist. Let’s you and I begin the straight talk about life on this Rock and the universal need for respect.*

·      Wake up; this is your fight. Know your power. Don’t wait for whites to solve our issues. Don’t allow your position in society be a weakness. Love all. Love = understanding. Know self as a person.*

·      What do you need from me? How can I support you? I challenge you to have an open conversation with an activist about issues and don’t allow yourself to discredit what’s being said. Choose to speak or debate often to get real talk.*

·      Who are the black activists? Are you the ones who struggle silently in schools to pull youth into the opportunities hoarded by white wealth in America? Are you involved in aid to Somalians being starved and slaughtered by revolutionaries? Are you active in the Democratic Party of Pierce County to elect black candidates with a progressive agenda? Are you considering yourself an activist by following your pastor in his latest community project for poor and disenfranchised in Tacoma? Honestly, I’m kind of in the dark here. Maybe the term is a misnomer that in this era tries to cover to many bases. Do you even want to be called a black activist these days? Would the implication of the term just dig up the anarchistic mood of an era that burned you out long ago? I don’t honestly know what an activist is. I think it still scares people, the term black activist.*

    To the White Moderate:

    I am writing to you today because I am concerned about the continued and pervasive reluctance to deal directly with racial injustices that still persist in our society. And why do I point to reluctance? Because every time I or more often my sisters and brothers of color bring up the ways in which they experience incarceration, education deficits etc... disproportionately impact people of color. 

      Every time an instance of police brutality against a person of color occurs and attempts to rally support are made. Every time anyone gets behind issues related to injustice or race white progressives say a version of the same thing:  "That issue distracts from the larger issue of capitalistic exploitation OR we need to get away from identity politics if we are ever going to get anywhere." 

      I say to you that unless and until we deal directly with racial injustice that pervades our society we will never be able to  make strides towards transforming our political and economical structure for the benefit of all. Instead of constantly telling people of color to "get over it", we, white people, need to cast aside our fears of being exposed as having racist attitudes and commit ourselves to getting real that we are all affected by racist conditioning and "get over it" meaning get over the idea that we might come across as racist in discussions about race. 

      People of color have been dealing with injustice from day one and white people need to acknowledge that first a and that white people have a lot to learn from people of color and should be taking leadership from them instead of offering leadership to them. f we began to this we would become a more powerful force against all injustice. Please white people wake up and get over it.
       Sincerely Conversation Member and fellow White person*


·       If you heard Oprah say “When you know better you do better” you’d think we as a people would have no issues with racism, however I feel the opposite has come true. We have used knowledge, power, and nepotism to continue on in our forefathers steps. I recently heard a gentleman say we see racism like getting our tonsils out and we need to see it as the plaque that builds upon our teeth needing constant attention.*

·     You continue to celebrate the United States as based on fairness and equality. I fear that you are unaware of how it is in fact the inequalities that exist that allows you to enjoy your comfort and remain to be ignorant of the realities of millions of people of color. If you truly are advocates fro justice and equality then your times and efforts can better be used by speaking to other white moderates in order replace ignorance with awareness. I urge you to refrain from concentrating your efforts on improving the ills of black people and refocus to address the ills of whites which go ignored and continue to impact blacks.*


·      Hey didly ho there Neighbor,
     A chipper morning to you. What are you scared of? What is your “Normal”? Why are you scared of blackness? What will it take for you to examine privilege and reclaim your humanity?"*
      
  
    Martin Luther King states that you "are the great stumbling block in the Negroes stride toward freedom. That shallow understanding from people of goodwill is more frustrating than absolute misunderstading from people of ill will." 
      
      I struggle myself to point out visual representations in my community of Dr King's statements and I'll say that without help, sometimes I often fail--perhaps because of the fear of criminalization, most definitely because of my own inability to cut through the B.S. most speak. This helps me to undersatnd that you would have immediate and powerfully supported failings as a priviledge holder. 
      
     In the past, I have thought that by practicing "goodwill"myself I was truly doing what was right for those I was serving, sometimes simply because I was succeeding in what I was told to do. So I see your own stumbling block in this as it matches my own in fragmented ways. Never-the-less, I cannot accept any excuse that doesn't at least address one's own shortcomings with this knowledge and the harm the lack may result in. --So please don't try unless you are ready to turn the microscope upon yourself.*

     Most days you do nothing short of disgust me, make me cringe, and feel angry. I often feel bad about myself for allowing you the power to make me angry, day in and day out. You make me Cherish Saturdays so I don't have to see you if I don't choose to. I often wonder about you as I am trying to muster the cmpassion to work with you--if then time were 1963, whose side would you be on? Is it the context of 2012 that allows you to be perceived as a "good well meaning progressive individual"?

      So much is below the surface now that as far as I know, even if you call yourself a public servant for the good of all people, you may not really care that much if the drop-out rates, unemployment rates, and incarceration rates for people of color stays where it is--or god-forbid gets worse for as long as you and your children live. If it came down to it, would you willingly give up your position of power for a black person if it were going to alter power relationships for the better? I don't believe you would. I do hope you prove me wrong.*
  
    Understand that we don't live in a black and white world. Don't be colorblind. You must see color and deal with color because it matters. We live in a color society. You can't make social change without the whole race-rainbow. I mean from black to asian to all people. On some level you gonna have to own up to your ancestor's wrongs. I don't know on what level but you can't shy away from your past and what happened. Most importantly, love and when I say love, I mean understanding. Know people in your world community and then know yourself and I mean yourself as a person not your race or your religion. *

    Personal Observation of Conversation member prior to sharing letter:
      I felt significantly more honest talking to the black activist than to the white moderate. With the white moderate I was doing persuasion, humoring them and playing to their need for order and status quo because making this change is really the most responsible thing because it will stave off violent change. This is really the more balanced and moderate point of view.

    Letter: The time for action is now. Our country faces unprecedented social unrest if we do not take moderate balanced steps to address the gap between rich and poor and between people of color and whites. We may be the freeest nation on earth but we respond behind countries like China unless we restore stability and affirm our peopl's faith in our peopls and constitutions.  *

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